Someone once asked me:
“What do you think is the most common obstacle people need to overcome to grow happy relationships?”
And my answer was: “Their past.”
Let me explain:
Whenever we’re faced with a new possibility, our past often has us automatically asking the same questions:
“What if he doesn’t like me? What if he likes me too much? What if he doesn’t call? What if this is just another one-date-wonder? What if he breaks my heart? What if he’s just like all the other guys…?”
Before a relationship even starts, we spray it with negative what ifs…
The thing is, we often forget that we can always ask the positive what ifs just as easily.
What if you he falls in love with exactly who you are?
What if everything you experienced in the past has prepared you for Real Love in 2018?
What if you can grow your awareness & relationship skills to truly develop a lasting relationship this year?
What if this is the year when the love you only dreamed about becomes a daily reality for your life?
Ask the better “what ifs”
and act on them.
It takes you as much time and energy as your old way of doing things… and what if this way works much, much better?