The Girlfriend Checklist

So last week I helped the women understand that there’s a huge difference between their “Husband Checklist” and their “Boyfriend Checklist.”

And the guys asked for their turn. 😉

So here it is, folks!

Lots of tips in this episode of #FallInLoveFriday, including:

  • The reason why these “checklists” can help you have more satisfying love lives,
  • Insights into why it helps for men to have more clarity about who to pursue, and
  • The 5 important things that need to be included in your Girlfriend Checklist. 😉

Enjoy, learn, and apply!

And yes, do click “share” and help more people create love in their lives.

Coach Aileen Santos

The Boyfriend Checklist

Remember, Ladies:

The Boyfriend Checklist is for deciding on a boyfriend.

This is different from the Husband Checklist, which you only bring out when — you guessed it — you’re deciding if a current boyfriend is someone who could be your husband.

Basic, right? 😉

Anyway, here are the 5 things you need to know about a guy, so you would know if he’s good Boyfriend Material.

Enjoy, learn, and share.

Coach Aileen Santos

5 Signs YOU Might Be In A Toxic Relationship

I feel this is an important episode in #FallInLoveFriday.

These past weeks I had been noticing a growing trend — particularly among Gen Z and Millennial couples — where they are experiencing toxic behaviors in their relationship…

…and actually mistake them as “romantic.”

Here is an example:

Girl tells guy: “I forbid you from going to your best friend’s bachelor party.”

Either one of them might think “it’s so cute that she gets jealous & protective.” And some people might also think: “I’ll forbid my partner from doing that, too.”

But this is what’s really happening:

  • She’s sending him the clear message that she does not trust his decisions / actions when he’s not with her.
  • She does not think highly of his friends.
  • She is keeping him from being part of an important event in his best friend’s life, and
  • Their relationship seems based on a “struggle for control,” and in this instance she particularly wants to “win.”

Yes, there is a very fine line between “controlling” and “influencing.” AND this is just one of the potential signs of toxicity in a relationship.

Find out all the 5 signs in this video now.

BTW here’s the good news:

When you finally know what’s wrong, you also reclaim your ability to make things right.

YES, please do share this video with people who can benefit from knowing these love lessons from Coach Aileen.

How Do I Know If He / She Is “The One”?

“How Do I Know if He/She is The One?”

In this episode of #FallInLoveFriday, #CoachAileenSantos shares with you:

  • The bad news (and good news!) about Soul Mates and “The One,”
  • The 3 minimum requirements you need from any partner (a.k.a. basic foundations for “The One,”) and
  • *mHow to figure out your own 3 Non Negotiables to better guide you in choosing “The One” for you.

Follow Coach Aileen Santos for more love insights every Friday!

How To Deal With An Angry Girlfriend

“I already explained, but she’s still mad. What else does she want from me?”

In this video — part of our series of #FallInLoveFriday episodes to help Men better inderstand the women they love — you will learn:

* The 3 insights you need to know when your female partner is upset with you.

* The 3 most common reasons why women are *really* upset. And

* Tips on how you can instantly apply these insights to improve your relationship.

#CoachAileenSantos
http://www.FallInLoveFriday.com

Understanding Women: What If She Wants All My Attention?

Several guys have been sending me a lot of questions recently.

And although their situations are different, at the heart of their questions is this one real concern:

“How can I better understand the woman I love?”

It’s awesome when men take this kind of leadership in their relationships, so I’m dedicating the next few episodes to answering their dilemmas.

Because when partners who love each other strive to understand each other better, everyone wins. 🙂

In this particular #FallInLoveFriday episode you will discover:

  • 2 Major Differences between “needing someone” and “being needy.”
  • 3 Guidelines for striking the balance between “growing your relationship” and “draining each other.”

And

  • 2 Concrete Steps you can apply to improve your own relationships now.

Enjoy! ❤

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