Tips for Singles from Relationship Coach Aileen Santos

In my years of coaching I have come across singles who tell me they’ve been “single since birth.”

Sometimes the women say they’re “NBSB” (no boyfriend since birth), or the men will say they’re NGSB (no girlfriend since birth).

Either way, what they’re doing is this: They’re giving themselves a label that has nothing to do with how wonderful they are.

Here some of the tips I want to share with these wonderful singles:

The Ouija Board Gave Me My Future Husband’s Name

People know me now as a Relationship Coach and Romance Author, someone who helps people enjoy better love stories In Real Life.

But back when I was a teenager, my own love story started out with a very interesting twist.

This is what happened…

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How To Deal With An Angry Girlfriend

“I already explained, but she’s still mad. What else does she want from me?”

In this video — part of our series of #FallInLoveFriday episodes to help Men better inderstand the women they love — you will learn:

* The 3 insights you need to know when your female partner is upset with you.

* The 3 most common reasons why women are *really* upset. And

* Tips on how you can instantly apply these insights to improve your relationship.

#CoachAileenSantos
http://www.FallInLoveFriday.com

How Do You “Move On?”

After a relationship ends, you actually go through 3 stages:

1. The Hurting Stage

Most relationships are “official.” Both partners know yet are in an exclusive relationship with each other, and act accordingly.

Some relationships are not: they’re based on a lot of assumption and expectation.

But when either ends, there is a common experience: the hurt.

Official relationships end with an actual break up. Non official ones can end with a sudden jolt, or a painfully slow fade.

Either way, the hurt you feel gives you a clear message: the other person has decided not to stay in your life.

2. The Decision to Move On

This second stage is what we’ll talk about in this video.

So many people have been asking me recently for advice on “how they can move on,” and this whole video is my answer.

And it’s good that they’re asking.

Because unless they get through this 2nd stage, they cannot reach the 3rd stage, which is…

3. The Healing Stage

Here you rebuild your self esteem. Rediscover who you are without a partner… and even learn to enjoy it again.

Here you learn the lessons of the past, and use those lessons to fuel your new future.

This is when you know you have a future love story to look forward to. And you’re actively co-writing it with God.

Fact is, there are no shortcuts 😦 and the only way to move past it
is to GO THROUGH it.

Still, I hope this #FallInLoveFriday episode helps you with the hard part:

“The Deciding to Move On.”

Share this video with your friends too, okay?

Coach Aileen Santos