How To Deal With An Angry Girlfriend

“I already explained, but she’s still mad. What else does she want from me?”

In this video — part of our series of #FallInLoveFriday episodes to help Men better inderstand the women they love — you will learn:

* The 3 insights you need to know when your female partner is upset with you.

* The 3 most common reasons why women are *really* upset. And

* Tips on how you can instantly apply these insights to improve your relationship.

#CoachAileenSantos
http://www.FallInLoveFriday.com

How Do You “Move On?”

After a relationship ends, you actually go through 3 stages:

1. The Hurting Stage

Most relationships are “official.” Both partners know yet are in an exclusive relationship with each other, and act accordingly.

Some relationships are not: they’re based on a lot of assumption and expectation.

But when either ends, there is a common experience: the hurt.

Official relationships end with an actual break up. Non official ones can end with a sudden jolt, or a painfully slow fade.

Either way, the hurt you feel gives you a clear message: the other person has decided not to stay in your life.

2. The Decision to Move On

This second stage is what we’ll talk about in this video.

So many people have been asking me recently for advice on “how they can move on,” and this whole video is my answer.

And it’s good that they’re asking.

Because unless they get through this 2nd stage, they cannot reach the 3rd stage, which is…

3. The Healing Stage

Here you rebuild your self esteem. Rediscover who you are without a partner… and even learn to enjoy it again.

Here you learn the lessons of the past, and use those lessons to fuel your new future.

This is when you know you have a future love story to look forward to. And you’re actively co-writing it with God.

Fact is, there are no shortcuts 😦 and the only way to move past it
is to GO THROUGH it.

Still, I hope this #FallInLoveFriday episode helps you with the hard part:

“The Deciding to Move On.”

Share this video with your friends too, okay?

Coach Aileen Santos

365 Chances for Love 

Someone once asked me: 

“What do you think is the most common obstacle people need to overcome to grow happy relationships?” 

And my answer was: “Their past.” 
Let me explain: 

Whenever we’re faced with a new possibility, our past often has us automatically asking the same questions: 

“What if he doesn’t like me? What if he likes me too much? What if he doesn’t call? What if this is just another one-date-wonder? What if he breaks my heart? What if he’s just like all the other guys…?” 

Before a relationship even starts, we spray it with negative what ifs… 

The thing is, we often forget that we can always ask the positive what ifs just as easily. 

What if you he falls in love with exactly who you are? 

What if everything you experienced in the past has prepared you for Real Love in 2018? 

What if you can grow your awareness & relationship skills to truly develop a lasting relationship this year? 

What if this is the year when the love you only dreamed about becomes a daily reality for your life? 

🙂 

Ask the better “what ifs” 

and act on them. 
It takes you as much time and energy as your old way of doing things… and what if this way works much, much better? 
Love, 

Coach Aileen Santos