In my years of coaching I have come across singles who tell me they’ve been “single since birth.”
Sometimes the women say they’re “NBSB” (no boyfriend since birth), or the men will say they’re NGSB (no girlfriend since birth).
Either way, what they’re doing is this: They’re giving themselves a label that has nothing to do with how wonderful they are.
Here some of the tips I want to share with these wonderful singles:
The reality is that you can never produce a relationship instantly out of thin air.
…and that’s why you need to start by simply connecting with people.
So here are some connection tips for singles, from Relationship Coach Aileen Santos.
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“What if I seem to be no one’s type?”
In this episode of #FallInLoveFriday, #CoachAileenSantos gives men:
- 3 insights into what makes men ask this question,
- practical things they should start doing / realizing now to improve their dating situation, AND
- 3 more actionable tips on how dating (for men) is like being in Sales… and what they can do to succeed. 😉
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Q: “How do I know if I’m settling?”
A: This video. 😉
In this #FallInLoveFriday episode you will discover:
1. The 3 most common scenarios that make people wonder if they’re “settling.”
2. The real fear we all have, lurking behind the question, and
3. The 3 sure fire ways to know that you are NOT “settling.”
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Someone once asked me:
“What do you think is the most common obstacle people need to overcome to grow happy relationships?”
And my answer was: “Their past.”
Let me explain:
Whenever we’re faced with a new possibility, our past often has us automatically asking the same questions:
“What if he doesn’t like me? What if he likes me too much? What if he doesn’t call? What if this is just another one-date-wonder? What if he breaks my heart? What if he’s just like all the other guys…?”
Before a relationship even starts, we spray it with negative what ifs…
The thing is, we often forget that we can always ask the positive what ifs just as easily.
What if you he falls in love with exactly who you are?
What if everything you experienced in the past has prepared you for Real Love in 2018?
What if you can grow your awareness & relationship skills to truly develop a lasting relationship this year?
What if this is the year when the love you only dreamed about becomes a daily reality for your life?
Ask the better “what ifs”
and act on them.
It takes you as much time and energy as your old way of doing things… and what if this way works much, much better?
Coach Aileen Santos