Tips for Singles from Relationship Coach Aileen Santos

In my years of coaching I have come across singles who tell me they’ve been “single since birth.”

Sometimes the women say they’re “NBSB” (no boyfriend since birth), or the men will say they’re NGSB (no girlfriend since birth).

Either way, what they’re doing is this: They’re giving themselves a label that has nothing to do with how wonderful they are.

Here some of the tips I want to share with these wonderful singles:

High School Is About Discovering YOU

Your early teenage years
are for you to discover who you are,
and deciding exactly how
you’re going to change the world.

The years that come afterwards
are for you to start going after your dreams,
and recognizing the person
who’s going to support you,
as he pursues his own dreams, too.

Most problems happen
when you cling to someone too soon:

Your identity becomes “being his girlfriend,”
and your only dream becomes
“to stay with him.”

It’s a very difficult thing:

trying to rediscover yourself

when you never knew who you are.

It’s even harder to let go of a dream
that doesn’t work out,
simply because

it was the only one you had.

Coach Aileen Santos

#whathighschoolgirlsneedtoknow

The Boyfriend Checklist

Remember, Ladies:

The Boyfriend Checklist is for deciding on a boyfriend.

This is different from the Husband Checklist, which you only bring out when — you guessed it — you’re deciding if a current boyfriend is someone who could be your husband.

Basic, right? 😉

Anyway, here are the 5 things you need to know about a guy, so you would know if he’s good Boyfriend Material.

Enjoy, learn, and share.

Coach Aileen Santos

Guys Ask: “When is the right time to pursue a girl?”

Guys ask: “When is the right time to pursue a girl?”

In this episode of #fallinlovefriday relationship #coachaileensantos gives you 5 guidelines, including:

  • the 3 things guys need to assess about themselves, and
  • the 2 things they need to check about the girl.

While there really are no guarantees in love or in life, we can still increase our chances of success by doing the things that work.

Hope you find these insights helpful!

And yes, please share this with friends who might benefit from the lessons, too.

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