The Ouija Board Gave Me My Future Husband’s Name

People know me now as a Relationship Coach and Romance Author, someone who helps people enjoy better love stories In Real Life.

But back when I was a teenager, my own love story started out with a very interesting twist.

This is what happened…

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The Boyfriend Checklist

Remember, Ladies:

The Boyfriend Checklist is for deciding on a boyfriend.

This is different from the Husband Checklist, which you only bring out when — you guessed it — you’re deciding if a current boyfriend is someone who could be your husband.

Basic, right? 😉

Anyway, here are the 5 things you need to know about a guy, so you would know if he’s good Boyfriend Material.

Enjoy, learn, and share.

Coach Aileen Santos

5 Signs YOU Might Be In A Toxic Relationship

I feel this is an important episode in #FallInLoveFriday.

These past weeks I had been noticing a growing trend — particularly among Gen Z and Millennial couples — where they are experiencing toxic behaviors in their relationship…

…and actually mistake them as “romantic.”

Here is an example:

Girl tells guy: “I forbid you from going to your best friend’s bachelor party.”

Either one of them might think “it’s so cute that she gets jealous & protective.” And some people might also think: “I’ll forbid my partner from doing that, too.”

But this is what’s really happening:

  • She’s sending him the clear message that she does not trust his decisions / actions when he’s not with her.
  • She does not think highly of his friends.
  • She is keeping him from being part of an important event in his best friend’s life, and
  • Their relationship seems based on a “struggle for control,” and in this instance she particularly wants to “win.”

Yes, there is a very fine line between “controlling” and “influencing.” AND this is just one of the potential signs of toxicity in a relationship.

Find out all the 5 signs in this video now.

BTW here’s the good news:

When you finally know what’s wrong, you also reclaim your ability to make things right.

YES, please do share this video with people who can benefit from knowing these love lessons from Coach Aileen.

How Do I Know If He / She Is “The One”?

“How Do I Know if He/She is The One?”

In this episode of #FallInLoveFriday, #CoachAileenSantos shares with you:

  • The bad news (and good news!) about Soul Mates and “The One,”
  • The 3 minimum requirements you need from any partner (a.k.a. basic foundations for “The One,”) and
  • *mHow to figure out your own 3 Non Negotiables to better guide you in choosing “The One” for you.

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